Saturday, December 26, 2009

My mom wont let me wear powder, foundation, or blush and im 15!!!!?

she gets sooo mad even if i talk about wearig face make up such as blush, foundation, and powder.





im olny allowed to do my eyemake up only





but i get soo jealous when i see other girls who wear full make up, because they look so pretty!!





help?My mom wont let me wear powder, foundation, or blush and im 15!!!!?
hmmmm....that's kinda weird. mom's usually don't let you wear eye makeup and let you wear foundation. i always wanted to wear foundation, but i don't anymore (im 14). after i realized what it can do to your skin, i didn't like it. it can give you really bad acne and deep wrinkles when you're older. i have really good skin, so i really don't even need to use it. i still wear blush because it gives me a sun-kissed look. if you still want to wear all of that, you could show your mom exactly how you would put it on and she might see that you do look good with i. maybe the whole reason she won't let you wear it is because she wants you to have beautiful skin when you're older.





Hope this helps!!!!!!!!=)My mom wont let me wear powder, foundation, or blush and im 15!!!!?
you really shouldn't wear face makeup if you dont really need it. if your face is pretty much flawless then i could understand your mom not wanting you to wear foundation or blush.... and blush.. you REALLY dont need that. i mean, i dont know how you look, but at least your mom is letting you wear some sort of makeup. seeing that she gets sooo mad even if you talk about it, then i suggest not talking about it at all. umm i would buy my makeup on my own and then just start wearing it, and my mom never really said anything. well except to just put less. dont be jealous that other girls get to pack on their makeup, they are most likely jealous of you that you dont need makeup. lol. keep your head up high. try to sneak it in... and when your mom says ';why are you wearing that?'; just say ';wearing what? im not wearing anything....'; play it off. youll be fine. and if that doesnt work, youll be fine without it. ask for some foundation for your birthday, or christmas... ask an auntie or cousin.
start using it anyway.





begin by using a VERY little bit of the makeup. ur mom will get used to seeing u with the tiniest amount of makeup.





after a few weeks, use just a LITTLE bit more.





in a couple of months, u'll be there.





(btw -- wear earrings with some sparkly dangly pop. nice earrings are more noticeable than foundation makeup)





or, instead of the foundation/blush, go for a toned-down lipcolor. that could be a good start to gaining acceptance from ur mom
That kind of stuff is silly, I'm sixteen and I hate wearing any makeup at all.


Full makeup looks tacky, caky and fake.





My friends and I had this girl who we used to hang out with who was butt-ugly because she used so much makeup, whenever we went in the ocean or pool her face would melt...


She was ugly from all the damage makeup did to her face. B*tch deserved it.
it might all be for your own good ;;


if shes worried your skin will get bad (spots etc) you could talk her into getting you a mineral foundation..





if you are definitley not alowwed start a skin routine ;; washing your face at night ;; using scrubs and exfoliating that way your skin will improve and you wont need foundation;; and you will have perfect skin :)





hope i helped ya :)xxxxxxxxxxxx
shes right you know.


stay natural, and your face will look beautiful, and you wont get bad spots like all the other girls.


i dont wear foundation out of choice. I only wear it if im going out somewhere, and even then, my dad hates it.


i bet your pretty even without make-up


xx
well then you should ask her when she is really happy and ask her calmly how you feel when you see other girls wear it and why you want to have some face makeup on.that might help.
omg what ?!


your moms crazy. fifteen sound me old %26amp; mature enough to decide if your going to put makeup on YOUR face.


ugh i cant wait till i have kids %26amp; basically be the coolest mom ever (:
you shouldn't have to wear all that makeup at your age! wait til your 18 or you'll just look like one of those fake annoying girls. =]
You don't need makeup :D Your 15 the only people who are going to see you are your parents and classmates so who cares ^_^
Steps--


Try to ascertain where your parents are coming from. Why do they object to you wearing makeup? Do they think you are too young? Is there a religious injunction against it? You must first respect their point of view before expecting them to respect yours.


Try asking your mom to let her put a bit of make-up on you, if she says yes. Tell her you think it looks pretty and ask her if you can buy your own version of that type of make-up. That way you wont always be taking hers.


Address your parents' concerns in a calm, mature way. Insisting that you are old enough to wear makeup while throwing a temper tantrum will only reinforce their beliefs.


Start with simple things like gloss, nail polish, etc. Skin care products are a great way to start. Let your parents know that you want to wear gloss to keep your lips moist, foundation to absorb oil so you don't break out, and polish so your nails don't tear and develop into painful hangnails.


Tell your parents that you want to enhance your beautiful features.


You could take a different road, though, instead of the one on 4, depending on why you want to wear make up. You could tell your parents you feel that make up is a form of art, and that you want to enhance your creativity through using make up. You have to be careful with that, though, because they might fear you will turn out making yourself look like a clown.


If your parents say no, show your maturity. Accept their answer like the adult you are trying to become and look like it may prove their fears of your immaturity were wrong. They could have a total change of heart.


If your parents say yes, make sure that you don't do anything too crazy which could make your parents reconsider! Always make sure that you look reasonable, and remember- less is more!











[edit] TipsAvoid bright red lipsticks and red blush, or anything too bold.


Have tones like brown, nude, sheer pinks, etc.


Brown mascaras and eyeliners go well with most people, however, black is more dramatic.


Sometimes at department stores, they have makeup specials where they give you makeovers or tell you about your skin tone and what goes with it, these help a lot.


Some people believe a good age to start wearing make up is 13 or 14, but many people nowadays disagree.


When applying eyeliner, sometimes you can get eyeliner with a small sponge at the tip. A cotton swab works well too. Smudge your eyeliner to make a smokier look.


There are a lot of good tutorials for applying make up online, and videos are probably the best. Practice makes perfect but tutorials will help you avoid making crucial or just embarrassing mistakes.


Make sure the colors you are choosing go well with your skin tone. What may look good on a friend may not look good on you.


If lips can tend to be more red than usual, pat some foundation on your finger and apply lightly like lipgloss. Make sure it isn't to heavy. Then dab some off and apply a few pats of compact. Follow up by your regular lipgloss routine. The affect is a very natural yet appealing look.


Some parents are mainly afraid of black eyeliner that will make you look like a ';racoon';. Start off with a brown or darker blue color.











What you will need----


Foundation (should be a exactly the same as your skin tone, not darker. Use sun powder if you want to look tan, but don't overdo it. Keep it natural looking!)


Powder


Eyeliner


Lipgloss


Blush that goes well with skin tone


Moisturizer


Eye shadows


Mascara


patience


An innocent face





Warning---


Whether or not your parents relent depends greatly on your attitude, so keep it straight up with them, do not go off with friends, use makeup without their permission, and let them find out, or you may be 18 before they are willing to reconsider.





Hope I helped---


Tatiana

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